Archive for April, 2006

frustration’s of a father

Saturday, April 29th, 2006

My dad just turned 65 last Sunday and that day more than ever, reminded me that he will be more annoying than ever.

My dad and i are pretty close….i think that’s one of the reasons my mom always has a feud with him coz she couldn’t figure out the bond that we have that she couldn’t have me. We’re like buddies. But as my dad grows nearer his "katandaan" its becoming more difficult to keep being in that "bond" with him. Sometimes he forgets that he’s the mature person and that he’s my father.

My dad is forever frustrated over being the oldest non-lolo among his peers. Like when he meets up with his friends, they compare stories about their grandchildren and my dad would be listening and envious of them coz up to know the only baby he ever have at home….is me!

I used to like hanging out with my dad anywhere but now i would have to take in consideration the places that he and i can’t be together. For one, i try not to have my check-ups with my ASIAN HOSPITAL doctors with him. Why? Because unless the doctor is legally married….he sees an opportunity for that doctor (lalo na if he’s meztiso…he knows my type!)to be his brother-in-law! Some people who are in "that" age of their lives would pick on an object to obsess with, could be their favorite pair of shoes or shirt. But my dad….when it comes to finding me a boyfriend….THAT is his favorite object!

Gawddd! i can only hope these doctors were taught how to deal with people like my dad. The idea of having a boyfriend for me is really stressing, i don’t even want to think about it.

it’s tiring.